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big spoon to little spoon- come in little spoon

I always love when Sabatino guest posts!

Say what you will, but I love being the big spoon.


There’s just something to be said about being so close and finding that you fit together like perfect pieces of a puzzle.

Sometimes I crave it.  After a long, stressful day when nothing has gone quite right, there’s nothing I want more than to lazily curl up on the couch or in bed with you, pour us a few glasses of wine, and flip through the latest episodes of Boardwalk Empire.  There’s a certain closeness you get with spooning that you just can’t achieve with other romantic physical activity.  Like, feeling your back up against my chest, hips completely in sync, our legs tangled beneath the covers, and my lips dangerously close to your neck and ears.  To be a little cliche, it really is as if two become one, working together in complete harmony.

I find that spooning, at least for me, is the perfect time to bond with your significant other- when you’re smooshed up against each other and yet it still feels like you can’t get close enough.

For those of you who aren’t keen on spooning, keep in mind that women are very sensually oriented.  Luckily for me [as I’ll never admit to being the most handsome man in the world] they mostly respond to body heat, subtle touches, and fresh scents rather than visual stimulation.  This makes spooning the perfect opportunity to segway in to your other agendas, as your hands and lips are free to roam her body-scape. Plus, being the big spoon puts you in a position of control- something I find most women crave out of the men in their relationships.

Here are a few quick tips for all the big spoons out there.  First of all, your lips anywhere near her neck and ears will drive her crazy. Even kissing the back of her neck, just below the hair line will give her chills.  Subtly kissing her shoulders and the length of her back will peak her interest.  In fact, try running your lips in a curvy pattern down her back without ever lifting them up, slowly working your way down and up again, finishing just behind her ear.  Combine these techniques while firmly gripping her hips and pulling her close to you and you may be in for a long night.  When she turns around and throws her arms around you, you’ll know it’s on- just do me a favor and please don’t turn it in to a cheap 80′s porno.  Keep it classy and passionate.


Foxy Lady Friday

Once again, I polled a few of my friends for a suggestion for Foxy Lady Friday for this week. My friend Andy wins this go around as I decided that his choice of Anna Kendrick was solid enough to be this week’s post!


  • For starters, she’s just adorable. 
  • She’s from Maine. I’m from Maine. Therefore, she’s cool.
  • She likes to troll on reddit. In fact, she gets so into it, she does stuff like this:

  • She is a Taco Bell junkie.
  • Sure, she was in Twilight, but she was also in Up In The Air. Solid.
  • She can sing, dance, act, and she’s pretty!

Here’s to you, Anna! You Foxy Lady, you!

Foxy Lady Friday

For FriendFlirt’s first Foxy Lady Friday, I’ve selected (after consulting a few of my male friends) Jennifer Lawrence!


Aside from looking absolutely FLAWLESS all the time, there are several reasons why Jennifer is our Foxy Lady this Friday.

  • Did you know she graduated high school 2 years early? Smarty pants!
  • This girl is fucking hilarious. I mean it. Read some of her interviews or check out some videos on youtube of her. She’s very candid and just cracks me up.
  • She isn’t scared of any role. She was in The Hunger Games, House at the End of the Street, and The Silver Linings Playbook- all totally different roles.
  • She appears to be very modest and down to earth- who doesn’t dig that?
  • I’m betting she could kick your ass and that is just awesome.


And she’s beautiful to boot.

So here’s to you Ms. Lawrence! Happy Foxy Lady Friday!

xoxo Jess

Have an idea for an upcoming Foxy Lady Friday? Leave her in the comments!