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Man Candy Monday: Men of ‘Revenge’

Happy Man Candy Monday! Today is a special one: I’m featuring the sexy men on the cast of Revenge!


First there is Nick Wechsler who plays Jack Porter, the bartender and owner of The Stowaway. Scruffy and sexy!


Then there’s Joshua Bowman who plays Daniel Grayson, CEO of Grayson Global (and the prodigal son of the creepy Grayson family). Helllooooooo hotness.


Even Gabriel Mann who plays Nolan Ross, the CEO and founder of Nolcorp. Nerdy can be hot, too!


But my absolute favorite would be Barry Sloane, who plays Aiden Mathis, Emily’s partner in getting revenge. Just look at the man: pure.sex.


If you don’t watch Revenge, I suggest you start now. I mean, it’s a fantastic show that is loosely based on the Count of Monte Cristo. However, if you’re not into the story line, just watch it for the MEN! Gahhh!



Happy Man Candy Monday!


big spoon to little spoon- come in little spoon

I always love when Sabatino guest posts!

Say what you will, but I love being the big spoon.


There’s just something to be said about being so close and finding that you fit together like perfect pieces of a puzzle.

Sometimes I crave it.  After a long, stressful day when nothing has gone quite right, there’s nothing I want more than to lazily curl up on the couch or in bed with you, pour us a few glasses of wine, and flip through the latest episodes of Boardwalk Empire.  There’s a certain closeness you get with spooning that you just can’t achieve with other romantic physical activity.  Like, feeling your back up against my chest, hips completely in sync, our legs tangled beneath the covers, and my lips dangerously close to your neck and ears.  To be a little cliche, it really is as if two become one, working together in complete harmony.

I find that spooning, at least for me, is the perfect time to bond with your significant other- when you’re smooshed up against each other and yet it still feels like you can’t get close enough.

For those of you who aren’t keen on spooning, keep in mind that women are very sensually oriented.  Luckily for me [as I’ll never admit to being the most handsome man in the world] they mostly respond to body heat, subtle touches, and fresh scents rather than visual stimulation.  This makes spooning the perfect opportunity to segway in to your other agendas, as your hands and lips are free to roam her body-scape. Plus, being the big spoon puts you in a position of control- something I find most women crave out of the men in their relationships.

Here are a few quick tips for all the big spoons out there.  First of all, your lips anywhere near her neck and ears will drive her crazy. Even kissing the back of her neck, just below the hair line will give her chills.  Subtly kissing her shoulders and the length of her back will peak her interest.  In fact, try running your lips in a curvy pattern down her back without ever lifting them up, slowly working your way down and up again, finishing just behind her ear.  Combine these techniques while firmly gripping her hips and pulling her close to you and you may be in for a long night.  When she turns around and throws her arms around you, you’ll know it’s on- just do me a favor and please don’t turn it in to a cheap 80′s porno.  Keep it classy and passionate.

Foxy Lady Friday!

This Foxy Lady was submitted by my mother! So thanks, Mum, for suggesting Sofia Vergara!


  • Her accent. Even I swoon when I hear it.
  • She was discovered while walking on the beach. What? When will something like that happen to me?!
  • She is absolutely hilarious. Have you seen her in Modern Family or even in the Pepsi commercials?
  • She’s a single mom. Props to her! She even takes her teenage son as her date to red carpet events sometimes.
  • Aside from modelling and acting, she trained to be a dentist.
  • Did you know that she’s a natural blonde? She’s forced to keep it dark to “look” Latina.
  • She’s a cancer survivor!

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Man Candy Monday!

Welcome to Man Candy Monday! This week’s post was written by a friend of mine, Krystle. I knew as soon as we discuss this particular piece of Man Candy that this was going to be one of my favorite posts- ever. I fully agree every statement she has in this post.



So, in the fall of 2006 a little TV show called ‘Friday Night Lights’ crept up on my radar. Sure it was about football (and honestly I only know enough about football to make me not sound like an idiot when I’m working behind the bar. Stats? I know nothing. The big wigs and who they’re dating/married to/kids names? I KNOW IT ALL. My brain works in mysterious ways….) but there was something about the promos that peaked my interest.

Namely Taylor Kitsch.



Just look at him people. The hair, the broody face, the eyes, the body (we’ll get to that a little
later). I swear, the man is perfection in a human being. Maybe it’s because I have a thing for
guys/characters that feel like I can fix but Kitsch here swiftly moved up to the number one spot
in my “Elevator List”. Now, this whole post was supposed to be about ALL the men of FNL. But
my words about Kitsch took over and the rest of those guys will just have to wait.

So here we go – the TOP FIVE reasons that Taylor Kitsch is my nomination for the second
weekly “Man Candy Monday”.

1. He’s freaking Canadian. And pretty much grew up playing hockey. I have a thing for hockey
players. But as most athelete turned model stories go, kid blew out his knee and moved to NYC
to pursue another dream (where he lived in his car cause he was homeless. No big deal).

2. He looks good with both LONG and SHORT hair (Although I cried when he chopped it all off).

3. He’s charitable. Kitsch (we’re clearly on a last name basis. I don’t need to call him Taylor),
works with the African Children’s Choir – And even filmed/directed a documentary for them.

4. Somehow he can still look sexy eating a plateful of nachos from the Hula Hut in Austin. If you
don’t believe me, please google the video of him and Minka Kelly that they filmed during the
second season of FNL.

5. His movies MAY NOT BE THE BEST (I’m looking at you ‘John Carter’ and ‘Battleship’.
And ‘The Covenant’), but atleast its a reason to stare at his face/body for two hours.

Bonus Reason? All these pictures:


I could go on forever, and link you many MANY pictures where this man’s gorgeousness shines
through – but then Jess might yell at me cause the post is too long. So I will just leave you with
this – WWRD (What Would Riggins Do?!)?!




Man Candy Monday

For the very first FriendFlirt Man Candy Monday, I’m nominating Mark Wahlberg as the Man Candy.



I shouldn’t have to really tell you WHY I chose Mark Wahlberg, but in case you are blind and deaf, I’ll list a few reasons.

  • We ladies just love the bad boy. Even better is the bad boy gone good. Mark’s got a crazy history and he’s cleaned himself up rather well. Kudos to you, Mr. Wahlberg.
  • He’s a great actor who’s very versatile. He can go from biopics like The Fighter, to dramas like The Departed, to comedies like Ted and The Other Guys. Or how about the ultra sexy leather pants and nipple piercing version of Mark in Rockstar? And who can forget porn star in Boogie Nights.
  • He’s great behind the camera, too! Who here likes Entourage?
  • He’s very centered around his family. He’s getting his tattoos removed for his kids (not my favorite thing, but hey- to each their own) and he even brings them to Dorchester to keep his kids grounded. He also hasn’t married and remarried a million times, so that’s cool.
  • For me personally- he’s from South Boston and I am absolutely insane about Southie boys. I mean, that accent…it gets me every time.
  • Can you just LOOK AT THE MAN!? I mean, don’t you just want to reach out and just…touch him?
  • “Good Vibrations”. Marky Mark, we just love you.

And who didn’t love this Calvin Klein ad?



So here’s to you, Mark Wahlberg!


xoxo Jess


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