Another fabulous post by Love Guru, Sabatino!
The knot in your throat. Like your tie is too tight and you’re struggling to breathe.
This is what you should be feeling when you truly romance a woman. Yeah I get it, women like confident men who are fearless, and edgy. But what you’re probably forgetting (and what women are giving up on) is that once in a while they want to see that side of you that only they can bring out- the cheesy, unconditional, “only for you” side. And sometimes unleashing that inner Romeo takes confidence, fearlessness, and edge.
It should go without saying, but I will clarify that “romancing” and “sleeping with” are two totally separate goals, and should be treated as such.
So, when is the right time to be romantic? This is ridiculous. Listen. You can’t just be romantic on her birthday and Valentines Day. Try something a little less obvious, like Tuesday. Maybe you’ve both been hard at work, and your home life has you running in all directions. Maybe have something prepared when she gets home from a busy day at the office. And it doesn’t always have to be dinner, and sex should never be expected at the end- however, if you learn to be romantic, you’ll be surprised where things will lead. Also, don’t get discouraged. If she’s tired when she gets home and you’re feeling like she doesn’t appreciate your efforts, just let her unwind and relax. Sometimes a romantic evening together starts with a little alone time. Trust me, she’ll much more appreciate all you’ve done once she has had time to herself.
Every woman is different and shouldn’t be treated as though she was formed from a cookie cutter, so it’s up to you to decide what “romancing” means in your own relationship. Take her wants and needs in to careful consideration, and formulate a plan that includes both of you joining together for an evening of love, passion, and fun. I promise you won’t regret it.