The Best Dating Advice You’ll Ever Read

This goes for online dating and “offline” dating. Really, just dating in general. Actually, it can just be great life advice.

Ready for it? Here it goes:

BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO DATE.

Seriously! Do you want to date someone funny, interesting, smart, and outgoing? Well you better be funny, interesting, smart, and outgoing, too!

If you’re unsure of what I mean, look at this way:

IF YOU MET YOU, WOULD YOU DATE YOU?

Now don’t be all cocky and silly and say “yea of course, I’m fabulous!”. Sure, you’re great. But think about this really hard. If you met yourself, would you be interested in getting to know you better?

Now don’t start following your crush’s favorite football team if you don’t like sports. That’s not how this works. Your personal interests can be different.

However, if you want to date someone with particular qualities, then you better be sharing some/all of those qualities.

xoxo, Jess

Don’t forget to sign up for Friend Flirt! Launch is coming soon!!
http://www.friendflirt.com
http://www.facebook.com/friendflirt

Advertisements

6 thoughts on “The Best Dating Advice You’ll Ever Read

  1. Could not agree more!!! I think this is a lot of people’s problem. They want that funny, outgoing, smart person so that’s what they’re drawn to – but they themselves are not that. Or they try so hard to be something that someone wants and they come off as being too fake. Oh the woes of dating!! 😉

  2. So true! I hate it when quiet guys tell me they like me because I’m outgoing. Why don’t they just become more outgoing then???
    This is truly the best advice, but most have trouble actually making this happen.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s